Tuesday, November 11, 2008

Feeding Challenges

When we first started feeding Bethany solids at 5 months of age it was quite hard for her to manage getting food past her cleft and not in her nose. It would normally be a 20 minute struggle to get a couple of teaspoons of rice cereal past her lips and thrusting tongue. Most feedings ended with much of the food being expelled equally out of her mouth and nose with a lot of sneezing and snorting involved. It took two long months before she became proficient at maneuvering the food to avoid such catastrophes. There were times along the way when I wondered if she would ever accomplish this task and if it was worth the effort. There was counsel to "just feed her foods through a bottle until her surgery", but I was not comfortable with that and felt it important for her to learn to eat from a spoon while she was still young and willing to continue trying. This spoon that attaches to a squeeze bottle was a very good compromise and really helped her, perhaps because of where the food is on the spoon. Also, we started giving her Gerber Puffs at 6 and a half months old and those were really good practice for maneuverability and helped considerably with eating pureed foods as well. It did take a long time and lots of experimentation from Bethany and us. We learned what thicknesses and amounts she could handle and where to put it in her mouth; she learned how to maneuver the food around to avoid her nasal cavity being assaulted with peas and carrots! Occasionally there is still a struggle but we will continue to persevere until her next surgery.
Bethany is 8 months old now and what a happy, content baby she is! So sweet and cuddly, she will fall asleep in someone's arms or in her own bed. Also she is not a demanding personality in any way; even to the point where we feel like we are pushing her to eat a decent amount. At the same time, she is curious and eager to try things and investigate the world around her. What a delightful child she has been!
Last month we went to the Cleft Palate Clinic here in town and met with a team of doctors. Bethany had fluid in her ears and was put on antibiotics for 2 weeks. The fluid cleared up some and now it is a matter of closely monitoring her hearing and getting her ears checked regularly. There were no other concerns. Bethany seems to be doing well.
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